the hudson river towns

Yesterday a friend and I took the Metro-North Hudson Line at Grand Central. Garrison, NY was the destination to check out rental possibilities. We asked the conductor if he knew of Garrison. He said, “There’s lots of trees there.” That didn’t help much. However, a stranger sitting across from us with a love of the Hudson River towns picked up on our conversation with the conductor. She began telling us a little about the history of Peekskill, Garrison, Cold Spring www.coldspring.com , and Beacon www.escapemaker.com/ny/beacon/beacon.html . She said that since 9/11 more and more people have moved to the river towns. There’s a lot of creativity, many artists live there, and new galleries are opening up all the time. And she said that she’s been thinking of selling her Manhattan apartment and moving to Beacon and then traveling. I always perk up when I hear the word travel. It’s a magic word to me. You, too?

The stranger’s name is Mary. And Mary with a delightful way about her, gave us a new way of looking at the river towns. She was on her cell phone for awhile; I didn’t know she was gathering more information until she handed me a card with names to call if Garrison was the place of choice. Nice! As we continued to talk about the towns, the day’s itinerary got shifted. Garrison, it was noted by Mary and the conductor, was not a place to be without a car. Final talk about Garrison ended with, “It’s a beautiful place if it’s the lifestyle desired.” Thoughts of Garrison were eliminated. We would get off at Cold Spring or Beacon. Some semblance of a plan was forming thanks to Mary in the know.

We decided to get off at Cold Spring. Beacon was a stop away should we want to see it later in the day. Cold Spring is a charming town with very friendly and helpful people. We asked a lot of questions from people we met while walking along the streets, and they freely gave their time to answer. I was beginning to feel like a reporter. People from Manhattan never quite get over the friendliness and helpfulness of people in other areas. This is not to say Manhattan is not a friendly place, it’s just to say it’s not as friendly. However, there are big exceptions, Mary being one of them.

Cold Spring has lots of large houses, antique shops, craft places, restaurants, a library, a bookstore, a lovely inn, and whatever is needed for a cozy lifestyle. It’s a quiet town; it’s a clean town, and we were told that on weekends it’s a town busy with tourists. Going to new places makes you think of new possibilities and the many different lifestyle choices. Thank you to those people who shared their experiences yesterday. It was most pleasant. And a big thank you to Mary who I’m sure goes through life helping strangers along the way.

“Afoot and lighthearted I take to the open road, healthy, free, the world before me, the long brown path leading wherever I choose.” – Walt Whitman

city bakery

If I had an eating establishment, I’d want it to be City Bakery in Manhattan – just as it is – not a thing would I change. City Bakery opened its doors for the first time on 16th Street near Union Square quite a few years ago. It was a small, narrow, cozy place. Its loyal customers waited patiently to get to the food and the cashier. Then it moved to 3 West 18th Street, Union Square, Ph.No:212-366-1414, and is bigger and better than ever. www.thecitybakery.com

This is a place for people who want lots of tasty, fresh vegetables prepared by chefs who know how to cook them, it’s a place for dessert lovers, and chocoholics, hence the small Chocolate Room downstairs, and to the right of the Chocolate Room is the perfect machine for whipping up a delicious cup of hot chocolate. In the back is the salad bar and cooked veggies, big platters of fish, big platters of chicken, sandwiches, soups, homemade pizza, a fruit bar, and there’s more, all prepared with the best ingredients, and with a little twist on what you’d expect from the way food is prepared elsewhere. Whatever comes out of City Bakery’s kitchen is excellent. And the coffee is very good.

It’s a busy place. And now it’s a big place with lots of seating upstairs and downstairs. If it looks crowded with no place to sit, look again, someone is usually just getting up to leave. Not to worry. I’d find this place wherever it is; it’s too good to miss.

Have a happy Valentine’s Day. It’s a sunny day. Enjoy.

A hamburger and french fries

It was very, very cold on Sunday in Manhattan. I dressed in layers-six to be exact, to get to French Roast on 85th and Broadway to meet a friend for dinner. Six layers of clothing tends to restructure a body. I didn’t care what I looked like. All I wanted was to be warm. How do those hardy souls who belong to the polar bear club in Brooklyn go out in the middle of winter for a dip in the ocean? That would be called torture to some of us. It was warm, crowded and comfortable at French Roast. We had a window seat and could watch the different ways people dress to ward off the cold. We thought the one way to ward off the cold was to have a hamburger and french fries. Salads and vegetables are usually the order of the day, but this just didn’t feel like a salad and veggie day. When dinner was finished and it was time to leave, well, we weren’t ready. So, we had to order dessert. Anything to prolong the stay.

Yes, it was very, very cold on Sunday.

not just another day

Have you ever considered doing something radically different from your daily life when waking and beginning the day? Having an unplanned, freeing and exhilerating one day of doing what you wouldn’t ordinarily do. Okay, I’ll list some ideas that flash through my mind. Going to a city to track Bigfoot with those that are devoting much of their time in this pursuit. Flying to France for the day to see the Chartres Cathedral and walking the labyrinth. Pronounce yourself a food critic, and write about your eating experiences in a restaurant of your choice, then sending the article off to be published. Show up at an airport, train or bus station, and on a gut feeling, buy a ticket on the spot to a new city and go. Do one thing that makes the hair on your arms stand straight up. One thing you tell yourself you’d never do. So many new experiences to have and people to meet. Simply enjoy without hurrying or worrying.

“Walk down as many roads as possible.” – Phil Cousineau www.philcousineau.net
“It’s your destiny to play an infinity of creative roles.” -Deepak Chopra www.chopra.com www.deepakchopra.com

new london pharmacy is that and more

Do you enjoy going to a drugstore? I do. Mainly because the one I go to when in New York is no ordinary drugstore. New London Pharmacy is its name, and it’s located at 246 Eighth Avenue, NYC, 212-243-4987. The co-owner, Abby Fazio, has given the word drugstore a whole new meaning. For one thing, she really, really listens to what her customers say about what they need. She has plenty of excellent products and the knowledge to go along with them. She’s a trained pharmacist who also has a handle on alternative ways of healing, and has hired a nutritionist who is usually within easy reach of a customer’s question. It’s obvious she likes what she does, which is the reason she does it so well, and it’s obvious she likes people and wants to help them. I first read of New London Pharmacy in an article in Elle magazine. I clipped the article from the magazine, and carried it around with me for awhile until I managed to get there. And I’m glad I did. I can say my needs were more than met. I bought Yu-Be, a skin cream, products called The Organic Pharmacy from London, a product from Quantum for cold and flu – excellent, and, of course, I bought a few others things I couldn’t resist. If you’re ever in the Chelsea area, don’t hesitate to visit New London Pharmacy. I think you’ll be glad you did.

a gift

The idea of paying the check of another diner, a stranger in a restaurant, a few weeks before Christmas is a wonderful way of getting into the Christmas Spirit. I can’t recall where, when or how I heard about this idea, but I remember thinking, “Nice. I can do that.” Any kind of place will do: coffee shop, burger joint, informal or formal restaurant. Whatever fits your wallet.

The gift: When you’re ready to pay your bill, request that the server bring to you the check of the diner(s) of the table you’ve chosen. We all have different reasons for our choices; I go with my gut feeling when deciding on a table. After you’ve paid, ask the server to bring a note instead of a check to the diner(s). A napkin will do for a simple: “The meal is on me. Have a happy holiday.” You walk away now as an anonymous giver. You’ve shopped, wrote the card and given your gift. It’s a very nice gift, and it’s possible that the one who got the gift will remember it every Christmas. Imagine that.

“To know how to live is my trade and my art.” -Michel De Montaigne

“Make the decision to serve wherever you go and to whomever you see. As long as you are serving you will be receiving. The more you serve, the more confidence you will gain in the miraculous effects of this principle of life. And as you enjoy the reciprocity, your ability to serve will also increase.” -Greg Anderson

“Give yourself abundant pleasure, so that you may have abundant pleasure to give others.” -Neale Donald Walsch

love those quotes

I love good quotes. Sometimes they set the stage for the day, or they propel us into capturing the essence of an idea that, for the longest time, hovered at surface level, or they give insight into a way to graciously manage a difficult situation, or, they allow us to experience a feeling of complete freedom.

A good quote can awaken a part of us by touching our core. Good quotes allow us to know and help us to understand that, although there are a lot of broken down things in our world; simultaneously there are lot of good things happening. A good quote jolts us into remembering things we just might not want to forget.

A few good quotes . . .

“Walk down as many roads as possible.” -Paul Cousineau

“There are no means of safety against superior qualities of another person but to love him.” -Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

“My country is the world, and my religion is to do good.” -Thomas Paine

“. . . It boils down to having the courage to trust your instincts. You have to realize that life . . . was not . . . designed . . . to be as hard . . . as you want to make it.” -Tom Huth

“Nothing endures but change.” -Heraclitus