Sometimes a situation snowballs out of control, and, in the blink of an eye, one’s life is changed. And I wonder whether it’s a push from the universe offering counseling as in “No, it’s not the right time,” or whether the people involved are perhaps not properly prepared for the plan to continue – maybe both. But something happens, and the ease and joy that once was at the beginning of the plan are no more.
It’s written that the sages, through deep meditation and a falling away of the “I,” came to understand that all experiences are not good or bad, that they are just that – experiences.
Ahh, if we could live our lives with that thought and not add fuel to the fire with other thoughts, balance and joy would no doubt prevail – as the sages have said since ancient times. If only we could.
Tucked away in a small journal (unfortunately I didn’t jot down the author’s name), I found these words:
“If someone with a wand took away your ability to think, all of your problems would go away.”
It’s about the negative nature of thinking that is easy to fall into, of thoughts that repeatedly come to mind unless an awareness of what’s going on quiets the mind.
And tucked away in a small journal are words of another, and again, unfortunately the author’s name was not jotted down:
“You will never find the answer by dwelling on the problem. You find the answer by dwelling on the solution to the problem.”